LGBTQIA+
With abuse being about power and control, an abuser can use all the same strategies in a heterosexual relationship, such as isolation from supportive friends and family; economic and emotional abuse; and intimidation, coercion, and threats, as they can in a homosexual relationship. According to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, additional ways abusers in LGBTQ+ relations maintain power and control involves threatening to “out” a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity to the victim’s family members, employers, community members and others. Abusers can tell the victim that no one will help the victim because s/he is lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender, or that for this reason, the partner “deserves” the abuse. Of particular issue to members of the LGBTQ+ community is being cut off from supportive resources as these may be fewer in number especially in rural communities. A very daunting fear is the lack of civil and legal protections, which varies from state to state, and how these legal protections (or lack thereof) may influence outcomes especially if children are involved.
- LGBTQ Power and Control Wheel: Highlights unique ways an abuser can exert power and control over a survivor.
- Stalking and LGBTQ+ Individuals
- It Takes a Village, People: Resource toolkit for LGBTQ survivors with resources for friends and family as well.
- Transgender Power and Control Wheel
- Safety Planning – Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming
Here are some additional websites specific to LGBTQ+ challenges and supports:
- Legal Protections for LQBTQ+ people by state: www.lambdalegal.org
- National LGBTQ Institute on Intimate Partner Violence: lgbtqipv.org
- The NW Network: www.nwnetwork.org
- The Trevor Project: www.thetrevorproject.org
For more information or to talk through your situation, reach out to a Phoenix Project Advocate at 540-635-2302. Free, confidential, and language services provided for limited English proficient clients.